Couples therapy
My first question to you will be, “What is your best hope from coming to see me?” – this is where you both tell me where we’re going, and we can find a destination that you both like – the next best version of your couple system. There is a myth that couples’ therapy aims to maintain the couple-hood. It doesn’t. It aims to find the next best version of this couple, even if that version is separated. However, if the next best version of your couple is together, we’ll find ways to reignite the love, partnership, friendship, whatever it is that used to work and works less now. We’ll find the moments in which you were the couple you want to be, and how to make more of them happen. We’ll tweak and fine-tune until we are where you want to be.
Family therapy
My first question to you will be, “What is your best hope from coming to see me?” – this is where you all tell me where we’re going, and we can find a destination that all of you like – the next best version of your family system. Then, we’ll find the moments in which you were that family, and ways to make more of them happen. We’ll tweak and fine-tune until we are where you want to be.
We end our process when you tell me you achieved best hope.
